I should know by now.
Life is never a stand still and wait type of situation. We can adopt that stance, and find that the stream of life (that carries nurture and nutrition) passes us by.
We have bought a house. We could just leave it stand as is. But both of us are inclined to push past the current state into a “together” state.
Together we are building a new home for ourselves. Together we are working on new approaches to problem solving. Together we are finding a path that we can travel over these next few years.
Past comfortable! Not a bad path to take.