Extracted people
There was a day when I thought all people just attended church. Must have been when I was younger.
Of course, there were the bad kids. They wouldn’t go to church because they were so bad.
Now I’ve grown up. It’s not just bad kids who don’t go to church!
For a number of reasons, the institution of the church has hurt and disillusioned a number of Christians. Not that they don’t recognize a need to be with other like minded people. But they are afraid of the hurt that comes when they get invovled in a large group of people.
A small group, a house church, even a coffee klatch, is acceptable for Christian fellowship. In fact, they will get involved with people who are involved in a church at any other time than during the “regular church service” time. They will eat with, fellowship with, work with, serve with, and even minister with them. But the church service time seems to hold them back.
OK, for some it is just a matter of stubbornness or laziness. For others, though, there is a very tangible history that has invaded their reality. I’ve been looking this over for the last few years.
So, here is where your comments would be helpful (as they have been in the past!). How can a church change — what does a church need to change — in order to welcome back those who have been dechurched?

