When I was young, my father taught me about flux that you use when you solder electrical connections. The flux we used was designed to melt quickly, cleanse grease and impurities, and help the solder adhere.
I’m a bit perverse, but I loved the smell of the flux melting! I also like the smell of burnt toast. And things that go pop in the night!
Back to the flux and solder. One without the other ends up being useless. The solder will gather into small globules and sit all by itself. The flux by itself will stream into all sorts of nooks and crannies with no use to anyone.
Put them together and you end with a great opportunity for a solid connection.
So, perhaps you are wondering whether you fit in the grand scheme of things. YES! You are meant to be a part of others lives. You are meant to get a little heated every once in awhile. You are meant to help bring together what is often held apart.
Thanks for being flux and solder.