Does you abandon the past when you shred the papers?
For years I have kept a record, a fairly thorough record, of the happenings in my life. For over 20 years I have journalled my daily experiences. My file cabinets (note the plural) are full of tidbits and facts. I even have small pieces of random paper sizes and colors that recorded events and minutiae that would otherwise have escaped me.
We are currently downsizing. I have been blessed with a larger house, and with all that I collect and generate, a larger house yet would be appropriate.
Until I remind myself that there are no U-hauls behind the funeral hearse.
Yes, a summary of life is important to have. Reminders that remind us.
I have watched grieving families that gingerly but firmly disposed of boxes of files and trinkets. I have just finished reading the biblical book of Kings, detailing the lives of royalty. Most of them get a chapter, some less.
Not quite filing cabinets of details. Or boxes of keepsakes.
Just the core of the character. That’s what people want to remember. Were they God people? Were they loving? Were they generous? Were they peacemakers? Were they committed to their loved ones? Were they gracious in word and deed?
The rest of it? It’s all going to burn in the end. So keep a few reminders (make it easy on the family), write your memoirs (help them remember who you are) and live life to the full for the years you have left.