An upside down situation. Two bullying situations in our local high school have dealt with kids I know. They have been related to youth that attend local church youth programs. You might be able to see some things coming, but you still hope for the best and cry over the worst.
For all the factors that relate to someone being a bully, there is still a choice that is made. And until the heart is changed, there will always be the fast run to ruin. My prayer is that we see the initiators turn to God. Pray with my for this!