My final remarks at Jill’s funeral – May 22, 2012

Remarks at end of Jill Baker’s funeral service – May 22, 2012

Thanks to each of you here today – some traveled for miles, some took time off work, some just had to walk a few blocks! Over the years, I have known this day was coming – you have made it special! All of you are treasured.

Thanks to the team who worked to put this service together. Actually, in keeping with Jill this was more a time to “talk fast” and “sing lots”! The participants did not come as ministers, although they are. They did not come as professionals, although this is as close as you get! They came in tribute to Jill – but even more so, to shine light on Jill’s God. Thank you, all!!

Jill was always one to serve others. In keeping with her desires and in light of her unique medical history, her body has been donated to Science through the University of Saskatchewan.

We soon learned that many could not be here today. Prince Albert residents had planned on renting a bus and joining us today. But some could not come. We have planned a memorial service in P.A. on Monday, June 4th, at 7:00 at the Prince Albert Alliance Church. My mother-in-law could also not be here, so another memorial service is being planned in Belleville on the Father’s Day weekend.

For those in Jesus, death is the easy part. There is no sting in death. Life is the challenge!!

I pondered over what I would say was Jill’s life motto. Here is a feeble attempt to reflect that:

· May I know and walk with God as my primary appetite in life.

· May I smother those around me with the gravy of love.

· May I live like I could die tomorrow – and so, share my heart with others until I have no heart left to share.

· And when I am done, may my life be merely a reflection of Jesus love through me!

This Post Has 8 Comments

  1. Julie Crawford

    It was such a beautiful memorial. I am so glad we were able to attend. Your words about Jill’s motto were so true and I know I could never do all that she could. She is such a wonderful example of living life to the fullest, despite all circumstances.

    Julie

  2. Norma Kingdon

    I wish so much that Les and I could have been there yesterday. Jill was a very special lady. Full of life, and fun and joy. She loved life, loved her family and loved her Lord. She celebrated that relationship with the Lord in many ways, but the one I remember the most was through her music. She will be missed, I know. But I also know that we will see her again when we meet in heaven with the Lord. I do look forward to that day. I wish Ron and her family God’s comfort and peace in the coming days. Blessings to all of you.

  3. George & Stella Davis

    Sorry we were not able to be there. Your summary of Jill’s motto is an inspiration and prayer for us too. Much peace & grace to you from our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

  4. Beth Gobeil

    So very well put Ron….I’m wondering if you could bring those words with you to Prince Albert on June 4?

    It was so great to worship God with you once again…and I sense that Jill’s unique energy was with you yesterday!

    Your church family in Kindersley has a beautiful warm spirit, and it gives me peace that they will be there for you in the coming days to help you bear the load of this grief.

    See you soon Ron…our prayers surround you!

    Beth

  5. Colleen

    My heart was breaking yesterday knowing I could not be there (attending medical appointments in the city is something I know you would understand). I miss my friend and prayer partner and know you miss her even more….but don’t wish her back as I have faith that she is in a far far better place. I pray peace and comfort on you and yours…
    Colleen

  6. Nancy Pearce

    Both Ron and I are so sorry that we could not attend. I am convinced that the service was time of victory and antisipation of what we all wait for; being with and worshipping our King of Kings. My prayer is for those attending who do not have a relationship with Jesus, that in all that was said, the tributes to Jill and the message of the love of Jesus that their hearts will be so overwhelmed that they cannot turn away but will want what Jill had. What a legacy, even at her memorial to bring people to the Lord! I know the Lord is giving you His peace that truly does pass all understanding!

  7. Debbie Ogrodnick

    May we all live life with the same passion that Jill did…to the max regardless of our personal limitations.

  8. Ron Baker

    thanks for all your comments and encouragement! She truly was an amazing lady!!!

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