daily life as life goes on . . .

I hit my 59 birthday on Friday.  In past years, I have found that the birthdays just prior to decadal numbers (20, 30, 40, 50) have signaled changes in my life.

This year has been no different.  In fact, probably this year will have some of the greatest impact!

With Jill’s death I have had to reflect on my own life.  I’m finding protocols and approaches to others have changed.  While married life carries certain restrictions, because of love and respect for each other, singleness also carries certain restrictions.

Matchmakers consider you a new prospect.  Service groups see a person who should have greater time.  Family and friends stop you in public spaces and want to hug and console you. 

None of these are bad.  In fact, they are signs of love and concern.  At the same time, you are still figuring out how you approach members of the opposite sex, how you decide on what religious and civil duties to take on, and how you divide your time between friends and family and the broader community. 

In this case, for the good  of myself and others, I am finding that I must restrict myself.  There is much good, but what is the best.  And in doing so, while encouraging some, I disappoint others.

Oh, the joys of being a widower!

Billy Graham Evangelistic Association (BGEA) has been around for decades.  Within North America, there was a time when Billy was mentioned amongst the kings of the day.  Next year he turns 95.

In commemoration of his years of service, and to push forward the passion of Billy Graham, BGEA is launching a November 2013 program called “My Hope.”

Local churches are being asked to come alongside with this outreach into our communities.

Last week a representative of BGEA asked to come speak to some of our pastors.  The timeframe was short, but we were able to get a few of us committed to meet this morning at 8:00.

The work a church does is often plodding.  Every once in a while it is good to join together as a community with other churches.  And less often, but still needed, are those national and international cooperative efforts that can reach into a community. 

I look forward to today’s discussion.  We’ll see what hope there is of this coming to pass!

From my morning reading:

. . . advocates of instant Christianity flaunt the law of development which runs through all nature.  They ignore the sanctifying effects of suffering, cross carrying and practical obedience.  The pass by the need for spiritual training, the necessity of forming right religious habits and the need to wrestle against the world, the devil and the flesh.

• Taken from A.W. Tozer’s book  on the Incredible Christian, as quoted on page 105 of “The Best of A.W. Tozer”, compiled by Warren Wiersbe

I thought I would wait until today to post this thought!

I didn’t get sick 🙂

I have always enjoyed potlucks.  My children enjoyed potlucks.  The variety tended to be endless.

But women were always the cooks.  I’m trying to think of a potluck where only men cooked.  That goes back a few years in my thinking.  I can’t think of one.

So, I suppose this was a first.  For me!

Imagine this.  Teens creating their own dishes.  Adult males in the kitchen.  Meat as the main staple.  No pies!

What was left?  Take a look.