Philip Yancey in the latest Christianity Today. He points out that C.S. Lewis said Christians must make a distincition between communicating the good news of Jesus to those who hear for the first time, and those who have embraced and then rejected the good news.
“A person must court a vigin differently than a divorcee, said Lewis. One welcomes the charming words; the other needs a deomonstration of love to overcome inbuilt skepticism.”